marriage. But what could I do in this situation?” When the husband started bringing the mistress to the pastor for counseling, the pastor knew it was time to call for reinforcements. “I was in over my head,” he said. “I think I know how to help couples repair their marriages, but I can’t do that and help the husband and his lover at the same time.” Since the husband and wife were members of his church, he continued to see them, but he referred the mistress to another Christian counselor. How can